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进了养老院,你就会失去所有---53岁独居的我,决定这样过

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陈阿姨终于做出了决定。

她不回那个独自居住的家了,她去了养老院。

这一去,恐怕此生与她的老屋不复相见。

陈阿姨住进养老院的当晚,我从睡梦中惊醒,想起陈阿姨,我再也睡不着,同时陷入了无限焦虑。

我今年53岁,在陈阿姨家中做家政,那种不住家的家政员。

进了养老院,你就会失去所有---53岁独居的我,决定这样过

陈阿姨是在那天我刚走后不久跌倒的,她给自己洗了个苹果,地板上未清除的水渍,让陈阿姨脚下一滑,跌倒出去,同时手中的苹果被扔出去数米远,苹果肉沿途摔出一地。陈阿姨却无力起身。

发现此事时,是我第二天去服务的时候。

不幸中的万幸是,家中的地暖,让陈阿姨的体温一直保持的很好,只是这一跌倒,让84岁的陈阿姨再也不能站起来。

进了养老院,你就会失去所有---53岁独居的我,决定这样过

陈阿姨,是个作家,退休收入很高,住在高档小区面积不小的公寓里。

她架着一副黑框眼镜,人文雅,随和,不温不火。见着我,平和且面带微笑,十分好相处。

陈阿姨的书桌上摆着各种书,一套茶杯,几只毛笔。她很喜欢杨绛的《善待暮年》,我一边为她打扫卫生,一边听她读,读到某处,停下来,然后又重复的读,她也时常与我探讨人生的意义。

最近琼瑶阿姨仙逝,陈阿姨感慨了好一阵子。

进了养老院,你就会失去所有---53岁独居的我,决定这样过

我每天给她打扫完卫生,就开始帮她洗衣做饭,最后把午餐做好,她吃过,我把剩下的饭菜放进冰箱,这样晚上,陈阿姨可以拿出简单热热。

每当夜里睡不着,想起这样的场景,虽然日复一日,毫无新鲜感可言,但我觉得那份从容叫人无限怀念。

我每日去陈阿姨家,她一个月给我3500元,我在她家吃,几乎0开销,这样温暖的客户,让我心不累,那段时间,我特别满足。

而现在,陈阿姨摔了这一下,不仅她的生活状态变了,我的生活也是大反转,那种从容的日子一去不复返。

虽说,出门在外是为了赚钱,但在陈阿姨家待久了,我逐渐视她如亲人,我时常担心她,总担心她未来怎么办。

进了养老院,你就会失去所有---53岁独居的我,决定这样过

陈阿姨的女儿,已经在英国定居了,她女儿也想把陈阿姨接到国外,但陈阿姨坚决要过自己独居的日子。

陈阿姨的女儿听说妈妈摔倒住院,急的直哭,但因为工作家庭实在脱不开身,只能干着急。

隔着屏幕,陈阿姨微笑着劝导女儿:机器老了,怎么也转不动了,人之常态,视频通话和见面一样,让她安心工作。

“我妈妈就托付给您照顾了”。

陈阿姨的女儿在视频那头把她妈妈交给了我照顾,她说可以给我钱。

我一时语塞。

我只是她家的家政阿姨,没有人和我说过有照顾老人的义务啊,再说,陈阿姨从目前状态看,基本已经失能了,我一个女人,也50多岁了,怎么照顾的了呢?

可面对她女儿笃定的嘱托,我怎么也开不了口拒绝。

进了养老院,你就会失去所有---53岁独居的我,决定这样过

医院病床上的陈阿姨,尽管平时多么独立,此时,我也能深刻感受出她十分依赖我。

陈阿姨不缺钱,何况她女儿也说给我钱,她平时不跟任何人来往,认识并熟悉的唯我一个了,她还能指望上谁呢?

但是,我也不想把我的后半生就交代给一个失能老人,我也有自己的生活,也有自己的父母,我还想想享受生活呢!

尽管我每月收入不多,但余生对于我来说也是值钱的。

进了养老院,你就会失去所有---53岁独居的我,决定这样过

我思来想去,酝酿了几个晚上,终于跟陈阿姨说:“陈阿姨,咱们去养老院可以吗?”

陈阿姨的眼神在那一刻空洞了,思考片刻说:“好,确实让你照顾也不是个事”,“我再给你每月加1000元,你三天去我家帮我打扫打扫卫生,我的花花草草还需要你照顾,你每周去养老院看看我,可不可以?”

我顿时觉得这好像是临终前的嘱托。、

我根本没过大脑,直接回答:“好”,

“我会跟养老院说您是我亲姨,让他们好好对您。”

之后的很长时间,我们都没有说话,望着远处的窗外,一只乌鸦在干枯的树枝上发出啊啊凄惨的叫声,随之飞走了。

进了养老院,你就会失去所有---53岁独居的我,决定这样过

陈阿姨去养老院半个月了。

昨天,陈阿姨给我发来信息,让我帮她回家取些东西---

书桌上《杨绛传》;

枕头下的一串檀木佛珠;

一件大红羊绒衫;

还有一些生活杂物。

我像往常一样再次打开陈阿姨的门。

浅浅的阳光透过纱帘照射进来,洒在沙发上,我似乎又看见陈阿姨在沙发上不断重复读着《善待暮年》,怎样温情的主人才能配得上这样平静如水的瞬间。

突然又想起曾经被反复诵读的那句话:

在曾经的岁月里,每个人都会有大小不一的光环,当光环褪去,谁都是柴米油盐,谁都是一介布衣。

又真实,又可怕!

进了养老院,你就会失去所有---53岁独居的我,决定这样过

我走向书桌,整齐的几本书中间夹着那本《杨绛传》,还有那个平时用来喝茶的琉璃杯子,我把书取出装进袋子。

我走向床边,把手伸进枕头下,摸到了一串紫檀佛珠,白色的床单上有一根陈阿姨花白的头发。那佛珠一共18颗,每颗珠子都承载着陈阿姨孤独岁月的沉淀。

我走向衣柜,里面的衣服整整齐齐。很多衣服都不曾见陈阿姨穿过,颜色崭新。我把大红色的羊绒衫小心翼翼装进了袋子。

我站在客厅又环顾了一下屋子的四周,最后轻轻拉上了房门,也关上了陈阿姨那青葱的岁月。

进了养老院,你就会失去所有---53岁独居的我,决定这样过

我每周都去养老院看望陈阿姨,和她一如从前,聊起她喜欢看的书,喜欢读的诗。她就这么说,我就这么听。似乎我们回到了过去。我尽可能的让她高兴,愉快。每次临走我都会叮嘱养老院的护工们好好善待她。

和陈阿姨同住的,也是一位和她年龄相当的老人,失能且失智。陈阿姨说:她没有子女。我每次去,都看到她的床边绑着白色的布条。

进了养老院,你就会失去所有---53岁独居的我,决定这样过

53岁的我也是独居,我需要拼命赚钱,我现在不想什么岁月静好,躺平摆烂,我想为自己多存点儿钱,为我的暮年生活多提供一份支持。

现在的我,还是每天去陈阿姨家打扫卫生,帮她照顾花花草草,其余的时间,我又接了一个客户,还有剩下的时间,我就会过自己的生活。

我也学着陈阿姨,坐在自己的沙发上,拿起一本喜欢的书,反复诵读,享受冬日的阳光,喝茶自在。

进了养老院,你就会失去所有---53岁独居的我,决定这样过

我知道,有一天,我也会过陈阿姨一样的生活,躺在养老院的床上,和另一个人同屋,期待着一个人每周来探望我。

所不同的是,陈阿姨内心应该是丰盈的,她有自己的快乐,她不仅有身外之物的财富,重要的是她真正的财富在心里。

我的桌上也多了一本《杨绛传》,枕头下多了一串紫檀佛珠,我学着陈阿姨的样子,坐在暖阳洒满的沙发上,穿过黑框眼镜,去反复诵读那些让自己内心丰盈的句子。

我喜欢《善待暮年》那首诗——

人生最曼妙的风景,

竟是内心的淡定与从容。

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今天在养老院看到一个老人,已经失去了吞咽功能,靠护工用针管推进糊状食物鼻饲,每天三餐都如此。 要么坐在轮椅上看电视,病房里来来往往的人,与他豪不相关,眼睛盯着电视,也不知道看明白了没有; 要么一天到晚在床上昏睡。 无论是看电视或者是在床上躺着,一点动静都没有,寂静的令人可怕。 我问护工,一天三餐鼻饲,大便如何解决,护工说,三、四天后用开塞露,不断地重复。 好好珍爱身体,积极锻炼,让疾病尽量延迟到来。
一丝不苟明镜A6349评论6天前
我妈也是阿尔兹海默症,一晃15年了,她属于静默性老年痴呆,每天没有声音没有图像,很安静,只是什么都不会,全靠人照顾,今年86岁了,慢慢熬吧!
高冷旭日qg637评论3周前
家里老人完全瘫痪了,养老院消费不起怎么办? 我家老人现在瘫在床上,生活完全不能自理,吃喝拉撒都得有人盯着。我们白天要上班,可老人身边又不能没人,在单位的时候,心里一直惦记着家里,工作都没法好好干。下班一回家,又要照顾老人,忙得晕头转向,累得不行,还老怕照顾不周到。 没办法,我们就想着把老人送到养老院,这样能放心一点。结果一问,养老院的费用太高了!我们就是普通家庭,根本负担不起以后那么多年的费用。现在我真的太难了,一边是老人需要照顾,一边是工作养家的压力,感觉自己就像被架在火上烤,进退两难,完全不知道该咋办了。
24记录417评论5天前
我告诉各位,如果家里有不能自理的老人,最好是请保姆全天候照顾自己的老人,自己也有家庭,根本就分不开身的,而且时间长了,自己也烦,老人看到也烦,有句话说的好,久病床前无孝子。真的是这样的,我是亲身体会的
人在做,天在看。363评论1周前
我是养老院的护理员。我看护七个失能半失能老人。自从给老人喂饭,养老院收取家属一百块钱之后,我发现我这几个喂饭的老人,家属都掐着点来,吃饭之前走了,没有一个说留下帮我喂老人吃饭的。张妈妈儿子喂过一次,说啥都不喂第二次了。喂张妈妈吃饭,我得紧着说多嚼几下,要不然她能直接咽下去。邱叔吃碎食,喂嘴里抿抿就咽了。李姨就好喷饭菜,要是看她吃饭,就会一点食欲都没有了。她能吃半个多小时。这也许就是家属不爱喂她吃饭的原因吧!
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理财从“存”开始

理财从“存”开始
https://www.zaobao.com.sg/forum/talk/story20250203-5818759

2025-02-03

高俊玮

每到新年,有些人收到花红,第一反应就是“犒劳一下自己”——去旅行、买奢侈品等,花红一下子可能就花得七七八八。

刚从中国来新加坡时,我和妻子拼命工作,努力存钱,避免不必要的花费,存下一笔钱,多年前终于能去美国读书和工作,待了四年才回到新加坡。

如果当时没有养成储蓄的习惯,我们根本没有能力去美国,甚至连留学签证都无法办理。我至今记得,当时美国驻新加坡大使馆的签证官,仔细翻看我的银行存款单。如果没有好好储蓄,那段留学经历将无从谈起,也少了那段丰富的人生阅历。

有一对朋友夫妇,他们在新加坡从事普通的工作,收入也很一般,但每一分钱都花得精打细算。多年来的勤俭节约,让他们如今拥有三套房产,其中一套自住,另两套出租。他们的资产现在远远超过当初收入比他们高的人。有人说,人生苦短,要及时行乐。可是,享乐的同时,未来呢?谁能保证自己永远有赚钱的能力?

这对朋友不仅退休无忧,还为两个孩子奠定财富基石,更通过自己的行为,为孩子树立榜样。存钱并不是要做守财奴,而是为将来有大额开支时提供保障;当遇到投资机会时,能毫不犹豫地拿出一笔钱发挥它的价值。

理财的第一步,不是赚更多,而是控制消费!香港富豪李嘉诚白手起家,精打细算每一分钱。他深知,财富积累依赖的不是一夜暴富,而是日积月累的储蓄和投资。

存钱是对未来的自己负责,所有的财富积累始于储蓄。所以,收到花红时,最好把大部分存起来。如果没有急需,可以考虑将这些钱填补到公积金户头,长期养成节俭和储蓄的习惯。

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Retirement Financial Matters: Why many people think having over $600k is enough to retire on

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Why many people think having over $600k is enough to retire on

Insurer Singlife’s poll is spot on in sounding the alarm that retirement planning is a long-term affair because most people usually need around three decades of working and saving to set themselves up right, says the writer.
Insurer Singlife’s poll is spot on in sounding the alarm that retirement planning is a long-term affair because most people usually need around three decades of working and saving to set themselves up right, says the writer.PHOTO: LIANHE ZAOBAO FILE
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SINGAPORE - Many of us would be pretty pleased to have $612,000 sitting in a bank account when retirement looms, but believing that will be enough to see out your golden years would be a risky leap of faith.

That precise amount wasn’t pulled out of thin air: It was the sum that came up in a poll of 3,000 people here who said they would feel financially free if they had this much cash at their disposal.

Those polled said this was a comfortable sum, presumably because it would enable a person to have $2,500 a month to pay for their expenses from age 65 to 85.

Any financial planner worth their salt will tell you that it is never wise to make plans this way, simply because what’s good on paper may not actually pan out in real life. It is not practical to focus on a fixed sum as it may not be enough if you live a long life or are hit with big expenses like medical treatment.

Moreover, everyone’s needs are different. Those who live frugally may not even need $2,500 a month, while this sum is certainly not enough for those who plan to travel regularly in retirement.

But one thing is clear – insurer Singlife’s poll is spot on in sounding the alarm that retirement planning is a long-term affair because most people usually need around three decades of working and saving to set themselves up right.

Being financially free has been a popular clarion call for many people in their 20s and 30s because of the popular notion on social media suggesting that it’s possible to retire at 40 if you have amassed $1 million.

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But a simple calculation will show that if you need to spend around $3,000 a month from the age of 40, that sum is unlikely to last you beyond 70.

Even this assumption is inaccurate because it does not consider expenses such as medical and insurance costs, which balloon as we get older.

No wonder when Singlife carried out that survey here in 2024, 40 per cent of respondents worried that they would have problems achieving financial freedom. Significant roadblocks were cited, including insufficient income (noted by 53 per cent), unforeseen expenses (38 per cent), job insecurity (32 per cent) and debt burdens (28 per cent).

Here are three insights from the poll that you should know.

How and where to retire 

About 80 per cent of those polled said they aimed to retire by 65 and that they would need about $2,800 a month for daily living expenses.

This amount is similar to that in other poll findings, which seem to nominate $3,000 or so as the desired monthly amount for a decent retirement, which includes the ability to maintain a car and to travel for short holidays overseas.

This means a couple should aim for about $6,000 a month so that they can keep living as they did before retirement without too many cutbacks.

About 80 per cent of those polled said they would prefer to retire in Singapore. People wanting a change of scene cited countries like Malaysia, Australia, New Zealand and Thailand.

They believed they could afford the lower cost of living in those countries, plus enjoy the slower pace of life and milder climate.

About 60 per cent put travelling as one of their top priorities in retirement. About half wanted to spend more time with loved ones, and about the same percentage looked forward to taking up a hobby that they could not indulge in when they were younger.

Frankly, it is good to have an aspiration for your retirement because it can push you to plan for it today.

Understanding that retirement does not come cheap should spur you to watch your outlays because you cannot spend every dollar that you are earning now as you need to keep a substantial portion of it for your needs when you are no longer working.

For instance, how will you have enough to travel after you stop working if you spend the bulk of your savings now by taking overseas holidays every year?

If you think you need $3,000 a month after retirement, make sure you do the sums correctly now because the amount you would need to meet this from age 65 to 85 alone would be $720,000.

Under-insurance is a concern

Let’s face it. Nobody likes to think about insurance because it is an expensive product and many of us like to muddle along in denial, believing that nothing bad will happen to us.

But insurance is one of life’s necessities because it can help lessen the financial burden if calamity strikes.

So it is a concern that the poll showed that fewer than 40 per cent of people in Singapore had critical illness coverage, something all working adults should have.

Many people have the wrong idea that they don’t need such coverage because they are covered by their companies’ group medical insurance, or that they have their own private hospitalisation plans.

But these policies pay only for your medical bills and not other expenses you may incur. In the worst-case scenario, a critical illness may even result in unemployment if the patient is too sick to continue working.

This is why such policies come in handy. If one’s illnesses are covered, one can receive lump sum payments or monthly ones over a certain period that make up for the loss of income.

It is prudent for working adults to plan for this, for the same reason you take up travel insurance when you go on a holiday – it lessens the financial pain if something bad happens.

Similarly, close to half of those polled did not own any life insurance policies.

While singles might think it is not beneficial to own a policy that pays only upon death, couples should view such coverage as a necessary part of legacy planning for their loved ones, especially when they are still working.

The premiums for regular life policies are payable for life, so you should opt for a policy that enables you to stop paying after you hit a certain age, such as 60.

If you have such a policy, you can either keep it for your beneficiaries or cash out in old age, without having to pay for it after you stop working.

Critical to have retirement income

Unexpected expenses often cause us to have less savings in some months, especially when someone in the family falls sick or a household appliance breaks down.

Now imagine the same things happening to you in old age when you are no longer working. If you do not have a continuous retirement income, such as decent monthly payouts from the national annuity scheme CPF Life, big unplanned expenses will whittle away your savings.

No wonder then that many people here feel stressed over the prospect of not having enough to spend (cited by 42 per cent of respondents in the poll), even as they worry about rising living costs (46 per cent) and healthcare and medical bills (41 per cent).

Finally, many people dislike reading about surveys relating to financial planning because they think these are ploys to get them to buy more products.

The truth is, such surveys are no different from your health screening reports; you should pay attention to the results so that you can take preventive measures against possible pain points.

After all, turning a blind eye to your financial situation is not going to make your expenses go away. Instead, you should be keen to know whether you will ever feel financially free, given how you manage your money today.

  • Tan Ooi Boon is the Invest Editor of The Straits Times

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